Quickly and importantly - we are getting our information from a third party source. OutKast was not there for the conversations, so he was getting his information from a biased source. Then he himself is biased. So we got our information down the line of biased sources from a source that didn't even presently attend the conversations we are debating about. Don't you think the facts could have been, and probably were, slightly skewed in this chain, Archon? You shouldn't assume that the parents lied to the kids from what we heard. Heck, even the biased, probably skewed information we got was sketchy at best in context. We got very little information on the subject, and what we did get is probably far from the truth.
This being said, no, it's not fair that OutKast and his girlfriend can't see eachother. The parents obviously have something important to do. Such as the harvest season. I'm going to take a wild leap here and assume the harvest season effects their buisness by adding customers. Which means the parents are just trying to scratch a living, which in turn SUPPORTS the kid and will end up paying for the trip when and if it happens.
The kid WASN'T being mature with her parents, and she was being indignant and rude to them. And, knowing what we do about the average teenager, she probably isn't as mature as she thinks she is, nor is she mature enough to talk up to her parents about it. She has the right to be frustrated, she doesn't have the right to talk back to her parents like that. IT wasn't intelligent, it wasn't mature and, frankly, the parents probably made the right choice here. If she isn't mature enough to hold a civil conversation with her parents about seeing her boyfriend, she probably isn't mature enough to have a boyfriend in the first place.
And, Archon, families are not like buisnesses. Nor did the parents make 'a lot of really big mistakes'. Assuming that this was even an error, which I am not, it was one mistake. That's it.
The fact that they promised to take Becky out to see OutKast and couldn't does not mean they lied. It means they might have lied, but probably life got in the way. It happens. It's like if you promise to pay a friend back the next day and you get mugged. Your friend shouldn't call you a liar because you didn't pay them back. Something came up. With the biased information we have it isn't safe to assume that they are just being jerks.
First of all, they are wrong in considering it insignificant.
Maybe, maybe not. Either way, they probably do. What you have to realize is this trip is going to cost the parents a minimum of twenty two hours. If the parents decide to stay in town with the daughter it is even longer. And, personally, I'd want to stay with my daughter. That's eleven hours of driving if they stay - twenty two if they don't. That is a lot of gas money, that is a lot of time and a lot of effort. Can you blame the parents for not wanting to do that? Really? Would you? No, you wouldn't, especially if you had a buisness to run to support the little girl who is immaturely harassing you in the first place.
Teenagers are USUALLY not the brightest crayons in the box. So it's not out of place for anyone here to assume the parents are more capable of making decisions than the kids. Sure, there are exceptions, some people mature more quickly than others - however, if we are going to assume anything, it should be that the girl is not as capable of applying all the factors of the situation as the parents. And we can base this assumption on the fact that she didn't think about the consequences of her talking up to her parents, which hindered any sucess she may have made. Obviously, the girl isn't very good at thinking about all the factors of a situation, such as the cost of time, effort, money, and lost time at the store. All for a little face time with a boy that she probably isn't even thinking about marrying at the time and can talk to on a regular basis.