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I would like to point out an important section from our FAQ:
http://www.timewastersguide.com/forum/index.php?topic=11.0FOURTH ITEM: Be polite.
I can't stress this enough. Being insensitive to others' opinions is a failing of both newcomers and long-time posters. Try not to contribute to this atmosphere. It is good to have strong opinions, and it's even better to have opinions that are different from those of other posters. The forum experience is about discussion and disagreement.
However, you can disagree with someone without calling them names or otherwise insulting them. Be nice and respect people's differences.
Threads like this are bound to take twists and turns and get a little heated when they move from dealing with the specific topic (whether sex and sexuality are missing within the text of the Mistborn series) to more general (the role of sex and sexuality in our real life society--good, bad, moral, immoral, etc).
However, you can have a discussion or debate without name calling, without being condescending (from any viewpoint), and without being hostile.
If the thread continues to degenerate into bickering instead of debate I will have to lock the thread. I don't want to do that, as I like to see the board hopping with discussion and debate! So, to recap, polite disagreements = good, hostile and rude comments directed at other posters = bad.
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