anyway, I sense Skar is gonna blow up at this post, so this will be my last one on this thread.
Your sense was wrong. You made a point and it was internally consistent and was obviously based on actually reading my post. I don't blow up in those cases. I try not to blow up in any case.
The stories where the young people are actually young people on the cusp of adulthood, and the story is about them crossing the threshold, are not the ones we're talking about. At least not the ones I'm talking about. The stories I'm talking about are the ones where the parents would normally be present but aren't because the writers either have a transparent political agenda aimed at undermining "traditional" values or they're just lazy. The crux of my statement is I think there's too much of that offhanded dismissal of parents in mainstream media: books, television, and movies. And it bugs me.
As for liberals and families it all comes down to how you define liberals. I was perhaps too broad with my brush strokes. All the examples I gave are things that come from the commonly labeled "liberal" side of the aisle and they all are functions of the idea that the liberals know how to raise your kids better than you do, which is cutting the kids loose from the parents.
I'm not trying to say that no liberals have family values. Just that the forces and ideas fighting against the family mostly come from the "liberal" camp.
And to tie this back into the parents being absent from stories topic... I find stories that reflect real life in the underlying details more fulfilling and interesting than those that don't. And the fact remains that most kids grow up in two parent households. That's changing but I think it's bad that it's changing and that it's a direct result of cultural conditioning against the values that keep families together and the parents responsible for the children. The values that undermine families are coming from the same folks who preach the three things I listed in my last post. That's how the two things tie together.
Sorry if I've offended anyone. Really sorry I've developed a reputation for blowing up. I hope I'm getting better at not.