I had to but my foot down today, and I probaly look like a villian to my roomates. Before I can say what I did, let me give a little background.
I came back from Chirstmass vacation this year to find I had a new roommate. One of 42 and Promethious' friends got kicked out of his aparment due to a stupid new law in Provo, so 42 offererd to let him stay with us for a few weeks until he finds a new place. After about 2 weeks he decides to move back to Idaho, where he's originaly from, and live with his parents. I thought this sucked becaue he was someone that both my roomates liked to do things with.
Come a week later and he's still here, turns out he's been sick and didn't want to move, fair enough. A few more days pass and nothing, I find out he's decided to stay in Utah despite haveing no job nor going to school (he dropped out a while ago). Ok I thought, but he doesn't have a job, nor is he a student so no one is going to rent to him even thought his parents send him money every few weeks.
By this time 42's decided to help him get a job, something he didn't seam very enthusiastic about. See, from what I've been told, he hasn't had a job in about 8 months and has been liveing off his parents and now, as I see it, me and 42. Instead of finding a job so he can get a new aparment he's been playing my videogames on my TV, watching my DVDs on my DVD player, and liveing on my couch. He's got it good. 42 doesn't charge him that much rent becasue, well, 42 is a nice guy.
So after 2 months I've determened that this person has no intention of doing anything to better his situation or his live. 42 has tried to, in his passive agressive manner, help him get a job and realise he needs to do something. So after talking it over with EUOL, tage, Fell, and 42 I decided today that I would no longer allow him to use any of my things until he gets a job. This means no TV, no DVDs, no couch, microwave ect. It's harsh, I didn't want to have to do it, but I see it as the only way things are going to change in the sitation. It was about all I can do too, 42 is the leaser and I would never ask him to kick the guy out, that's not the right thing to do.
So I ask you all, am I wrong on what I just did? I don't thinks so, someone needed to do something and didn't want to put 42 in a overly uncomfortable position by makeing a huge scene.