I know that it is traumatic stacer, but I have a hard time believing that you wouldnt have a harder time giving up a child after you actually gave birth, and held the baby in your arms, you actually could see it and touch it.
What I meant by the father dying is that she might not be able to support herself without his help, through no fault of her own she is left in a very hard situation. Grief is also a factor, if she had visions of starting a nice warm fuzzy family with him, and then he was gone, she might give up on the dream. She might decide that without him she can never have what she wanted by having this baby. Circumstances change and sometimes it isnt the mothers fault that she made a decision that she later regrets.
SE, I asked him to stop calling my arguments ridiculous because it doesnt contribute to his point. If you want to prove me wrong use reason, dont make statements which are solely opinion. I know he backed it up, I just feel that it was a superfluous part of his text, and nobody gained anything from it.
SE about the cheapness of life, I just have a different viewpoint on death than you do, and I think that that might be a topic for another thread if you want to discuss it.